My friend, letting yourself be bothered by this is just pissing into the wind. Humans have been anthropomorphizing machines and other objects for as long as we've been making them, it's a fundamental aspect of human nature. Thousands upon thousands of ships and trains given human names. Tanks, guns, cars, anything that is at least moderately complex or that people find themselves relying on and forming relationships with. AIs have been getting human names since at least 1966 with Eliza, probably earlier, and certainly with many earlier examples in fiction.

There's no stopping it. Just roll with it.