I very much agree with your responses and can relate to them on some level, but I do also disagree with your interpretation that the other person's interpretation necessarily means that a person needs to be in whichever financially dire situation they're in because of poor financial behavior; quite a mouthful, I know.
For example, I've been at absolute zero and living in my car largely because I just couldn't find a job and literally ran out of money trying (I guess count the car and laptop as an asset, w/e, but actually in the red), and if I'd been given 2x $2k cheques, I'd have a hard time finding a way that it would change my habits for positive or negative for longer than a few months, except if I'd looked for a quick source of substance based relief, which I didn't and wouldn't but assume that's irrelevant for now. I'd probably just try to stretch as far as possible and maybe get a few more calories, or a shower, or temporary gym membership. I can sympathize with the confusion somewhat, because to influence my decision making long-term, I'd have to be set back or set forward in a more reliable way than sudden burst of cash. Like I'm not going to get a loan or a 1 year apartment lease, it would be more like a campground instead of the street for a week every month. I do think worst case scenario, back to the substance topic, is that if you're in a really bad place financially, for no fault of your own (which I absolutely agree that this applies to a majority of people in those situations), it's that you become addicted to something, but everyone's dealt a different hand from a different deck and I do believe I'm way off the mark in terms of what other people might do.
Edit: Actually, that sort of windfall might also make it feel way easier to start spending on food delivery bs, which I have to imagine is a somewhat crippling negative long-term financial habit, especially if you're already working like hell with a family and it's an obvious efficiency increase.
For example, I've been at absolute zero and living in my car largely because I just couldn't find a job and literally ran out of money trying (I guess count the car and laptop as an asset, w/e, but actually in the red), and if I'd been given 2x $2k cheques, I'd have a hard time finding a way that it would change my habits for positive or negative for longer than a few months, except if I'd looked for a quick source of substance based relief, which I didn't and wouldn't but assume that's irrelevant for now. I'd probably just try to stretch as far as possible and maybe get a few more calories, or a shower, or temporary gym membership. I can sympathize with the confusion somewhat, because to influence my decision making long-term, I'd have to be set back or set forward in a more reliable way than sudden burst of cash. Like I'm not going to get a loan or a 1 year apartment lease, it would be more like a campground instead of the street for a week every month. I do think worst case scenario, back to the substance topic, is that if you're in a really bad place financially, for no fault of your own (which I absolutely agree that this applies to a majority of people in those situations), it's that you become addicted to something, but everyone's dealt a different hand from a different deck and I do believe I'm way off the mark in terms of what other people might do.
Edit: Actually, that sort of windfall might also make it feel way easier to start spending on food delivery bs, which I have to imagine is a somewhat crippling negative long-term financial habit, especially if you're already working like hell with a family and it's an obvious efficiency increase.