There are movies that show violence against people in a way that hits and in a way that people react to. However, not in typical action/war/thriller story.
The context matters. The depictions of violence of people in media if typically very intentionally written in a way that does not make you feel too bad. The killed people rarely have personalities or matter. Modern media rarely kills characters that people had a chance to know or relate to. They are not cute and their deaths are sort of "clean".
The cute animals people are squeamish about are played up for cuteness, the owner is played up to be sad. It is all very intentionally made up to make you feel sad.
The context matters. The depictions of violence of people in media if typically very intentionally written in a way that does not make you feel too bad. The killed people rarely have personalities or matter. Modern media rarely kills characters that people had a chance to know or relate to. They are not cute and their deaths are sort of "clean".
The cute animals people are squeamish about are played up for cuteness, the owner is played up to be sad. It is all very intentionally made up to make you feel sad.